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Playing the Long Game: Coach Spotlight with Sharon Murphy

Paul Wardlaw, Coach Development Manager | August 18, 2026


"This is stupid."

 

That was the verdict from a group of kids at a summer club in Glastonbury, CT, the first time Sharon Murphy laid caution tape across the length of the court, creating six 36-foot courts on one full-size tennis court. The kids wanted to know why. Why couldn't they just play with the yellow ball?

Murphy didn't argue. She showed them. She and her head assistant hit a few balls back and forth with proper technique. "Do we look like we're playing tennis?" she asked. They agreed she did. Then she pointed out that they didn't — not because they weren't trying, but because they'd been playing with a ball that was consistently out of their strike zone. She sent them back to their mini-courts, but this time playing with the appropriate ball for their level, a ball that allowed them to rally and play.

 

Three days later, the kids were playing JV matches with orange balls at a 60-foot baseline instead of “tapping” at yellow balls from the service line. The parents, who'd spent the first few days watching from the sidelines wondering why things suddenly looked so structured, came around too. They saw their kids improve.

 

This story says a lot about how Murphy coaches and about the 26 years that got her here.

 

From insurance to the court

 

Murphy didn't start out in tennis. She has a math degree from the University of New Hampshire and spent six or seven years at Travelers Insurance before leaving to raise her two children. A divorce in 2000 sent her looking for work again, and she made a decision she had once contemplated coming out of college: she was going to teach tennis.

Sharon Murphy has taught at East Hartford Tennis Club for 26 years.

She got certified through PTR's teaching essentials program in Hilton Head — a week-long course that, at the time, still taught twelve separate steps to teaching a serve. "That's how things have evolved," she says. She means it as a compliment to where the profession is now, not a criticism on where it started.

 

From managing a club, to independent teaching pro at East Hartford Tennis Club, to PTR clinician, to a master professional certification in junior development — one connection led to the next. Steve Keller, a mentor she credits repeatedly, kept encouraging her toward the next level of education. She's been at East Hartford ever since, and the "master's," as she calls it, opened doors she hadn't seen coming.

 

The ebb and flow of variety

 

Ask Murphy what she likes best about her work and she doesn't point to any one thing. She points to the variety. In a given year she directs a Nike Tennis Camp, coaches at the high school level, runs a junior development program at East Hartford, directs roughly 20 sanctioned USTA tournaments, and teaches virtual coach education workshops, and serves as an in-demand Coach Developer for USTA’s Intro to Coaching (ITC) workshops. 

 

She focuses on beginner and low-intermediate players by choice, kids and adults alike, not by default. "I can hit with high-performance players," she says. "Can I coach them? Not really. I don't see the things a high-performance coach needs to see, just like a high-performance coach doesn't see the things I see in teaching a beginner." It's a distinction she holds without apology. 

 

A passion for learning

 

Murphy is now a Coach Developer for USTA Coaching, a role that requires her to keep studying new modules, new content, and new ways of explaining old ideas. She treats that requirement as an opportunity rather than a chore. In a note she sent after our conversation, she put it simply: her biggest takeaway from years of continuing education is reflection. She takes the time to reflect on everything now, and not just tennis. 

 

That habit shows up in how she describes the arc of her own coaching. Early on, she says, teaching was built around feeding balls and drilling technique. Today, her focus and the USTA’s, has shifted toward getting players to actually rally and play. Technique still matters, she's quick to add, but technique alone isn't the point. “You can have beautiful strokes and still not be able to play a point.”

 

She brings the same mindset to mentoring the young assistants who work under her, several of them fresh out of ITC workshops. She hands them lesson plans, walks them through the ROGY progression, and lets them find their footing. This includes the difficult lesson of learning to be the adult in a room full of kids they used to play alongside.

 

**A belief about coaching she's since abandoned:**  That standing kids in a line to feed them balls helps them improve.

 

**A moment she still thinks about:**  A UNH college match against Dartmouth's number-one player. Sharon won the first set 6–0 and led the second 5–0 — then watched her opponent settle in and take the match. "I was winning off her mistakes," Murphy says. "And then she just settled in, and it was all over."

 

**The best advice she's ever received:**  Be patient. Learning takes time — whether you're the one learning, or the one teaching.

 

**Finish the sentence: "The coaches who improve the most are the ones..."**

"...who are willing to continue their education to improve themselves."

 

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*Sharon Murphy has been a teaching professional for 26 years and currently coaches out of East Hartford Tennis Club in East Hartford, Connecticut.*

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