Erika Moe Finds Inspiration Through Tennis and Family
AVON, CT - When Erika Moe steps on the courts at Racquets For Life (RFL) Simsbury, she brings more than just years of coaching experience—she brings an inspiring story of recovery, perseverance and the power of family. Now in her second year as Tennis Director at RFL, Moe has dedicated her life to the sport she loves. But her journey hasn’t been without challenges.
Three and a half years ago, Moe suffered a spinal cord injury that left her partially paralyzed. One moment she was teaching hitting lessons with players of all levels, from juniors to competitive adults, and the next, she couldn’t walk, stand or even feel her legs. Emergency surgery followed, and her doctors advised her the outcome was uncertain.
“They couldn’t give me a concrete answer. I could’ve been paralyzed for the rest of my life,” Moe said. “I feared the worst and knew how it could affect the family. It was completely devastating.”
She was determined to get better.
The rehabilitation process was grueling. Moe spent five days in the hospital followed by three weeks of intensive rehab.
She remembers the moment she took her first steps, with two physical therapists holding her up. It was both a physical and emotional milestone.
“Repetition was everything. As an athlete, you’re used to pushing yourself, and that mindset helped me back on my feet and eventually got me released early,” Moe said.
Months later, Moe was remarkably back on the court teaching lessons. While the injury changed her approach to coaching, it did not interfere with her passion.
Previously, Moe loved hitting lessons, thriving on being able to hit with anyone at any time. Now, with mobility limitations, she has relied more on strategy-based instruction, often calling on her daughters, Kaya (17) and Karina (15) to step in for live hitting sessions.
“I can’t be as physically hands-on as I used to be, especially with beginners, but I’ve learned to be more descriptive. I’ve taught people who thought they’d never play again after injuries or surgeries. I call it ‘rehab tennis,’ showing people that anything is possible,” Moe said.
During her recovery, her family became her rock. Her daughters, top junior players in New England, helped immensely, both on and off the court.
“They were incredible,” she says. “I told my husband Jeff, ‘You need to keep their tennis going—that’s their normal. Me being away isn’t.’”
Moe began teaching her girls tennis as soon as they could walk, starting with balloons and bubbles to build hand-eye coordination, and she has been working with them ever since.
“I enjoyed it as a kid, and I didn’t know if they would love it, but I knew I wanted to introduce them. I’d always ask them if they wanted to try other sports when they got older, and they kept saying no,” Moe said.
Along with the on-court skills, Moe has always instilled positive values and emphasized the importance of sportsmanship.
“I’ve always told them to respect your opponent, respect yourself, and respect the sport. When you come off the court, win or lose, you want to make sure you’ve done everything to show that,” Moe said.
Kaya, who is the No. 1 ranked player in New England in the Girls’ 18s division and has verbally committed to play DI tennis at Auburn University, has earned multiple sportsmanship awards, including at last year’s February L2 National Championships in Rhode Island.
Karina reached as high as No. 4 in New England in the Girls’ 14s division earlier this year before aging out, and she earned the Girls’ Sportsmanship Award at the 2024 New England Junior Section Championships.
These days, much of Moe’s joy comes from road trips to tennis tournaments with her daughters. Whether it’s just the two of them in the car or the whole family, the hours spent traveling have become invaluable.
“I’ll travel with Kaya to one tournament and Jeff takes Karina to another and then we’ll try to switch off. That one-on-one time is awesome. You can’t replace it,” Moe said. “When they’re sitting next to you in the car, they can’t escape you. There are no distractions, and the conversations become more real. You really get to know your kid in those moments.”
As the girls have grown, so have the conversations. Moe treasures the chance to explore new cities, try different cuisines and watch her daughters grow both as players and people.
“I grew up in Southern California and often traveled with my mother to tournaments. We’re creating new memories that I hope they’ll look back on fondly, just like I do with my mom,” she said.
As Moe reflects on those shared experiences, she’s also reminded of the traditions that shaped her own childhood. Her Japanese heritage, in particular, has remained meaningful throughout her life. Her mother spoke to her in Japanese, enrolled her in language school and brought her to Japan every year to visit family.
Moe has made an effort to pass that connection on to her daughters, taking them to Japan when they were young and encouraging family time.
“They love the food, and my mom still tells them stories about the culture,” she said. “One of my goals is to take one more family trip there while my mom and aunt are still healthy.”
Through every challenge and milestone, Moe has found strength in family, culture and a lifelong love for tennis. Tennis is what’s normal for the Moes, and with tennis a part of their lives, anything is possible.
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